219 Gay Couples United In First Month Of NJ Civil Unions
by 365Gay.com Newscenter Staff
Posted: March 20, 2007 – 3:00 pm ET

(Trenton, New Jersey) In the first month that civil unions have been legal in New Jersey at least 219 same-sex couples have been united according to statistics released Tuesday by the state Health and Senior Services Department.

The figures show that at least one gay couple had applied for a civil union in each of new Jersey’s 21 counties.

The Department’s statistics cover the period from Feb. 19, when the law went into effect, until March 19.

In addition to the new applicants, at least 10 gay couples who entered into civil unions or marriages elsewhere have filed papers to reaffirm their relationships in New Jersey.

Last October the New Jersey Supreme Court ruled same-sex couples must have all the rights of marriage.

The Court gave the New Jersey State Legislature 180 days to act on the decision to grant same-sex couples the rights and benefits enjoyed by different-sex married couples but left it up to the legislators to decide whether to call it marriage or civil unions. (story)

The legislature opted for civil unions. But, that say civil rights groups, amounts to separate but equal and are threatening to take the issue back to the Supreme Court.

Garden State Equality, New Jersey’s statewide LGBT rights group called the numbers released by the state Tuesday “extremely low” but added it was not surprised.

“There’s a huge sense in the gay community that we’re going to win full marriage equality here soon,” chair Steven Goldstein told the New York times.

“In the context of a civil rights movement, that means the next couple of years, given the momentum we have in the State Legislature. Couples are saying to themselves, ‘We’re going to get marriage anyway, why get civil unioned?” he said.

A bill to amend the civil union law and provide marriage has been filed in the legislature. Meanwhile, opponents of gay marriage are trying to get a proposed amendment on the ballot to ban gay marriage.

Democrats in both houses have said they would not post a vote for a constitutional amendment that would undermine the rights of same-sex couples.

While McHose and Doherty try to muster support in the legislature for an amendment the conservative New Jersey Family Policy Council is pushing its own petition drive to get a proposed amendment on the ballot.

The group says it has printed enough petitions for 300,000 names.

There are an estimated 20,000 same-sex couples living in New Jersey.

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Garden State Equality condemns Peter Pace
as unfit to lead the U.S. military
Response from Steven Goldstein, chair, Garden State Equality,

As you may have read in today’s news, General Peter Pace, chairman of the joint chiefs of staff, has endorsed the U.S. military’s policy of “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell.” Pace, who grew up in New Jersey, says: “homosexual acts between two individuals are immoral… and I do not believe the United States is well served by a policy that says it is okay to be immoral in any way.”

First the general is hardly in a position to judge others. As a leader of the war in Iraq, General Pace has shown as much savvy in leading the military as Alfred E. Neuman would have in explaining the theory of relativity. Of course General Pace believes in “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell.” He’s been key to the Administration’s edict, “Don’t ask about the war, and don’t tell the American people how badly it’s going.”

Secondly, how ironic for man whose last name is Pace that the general hasn’t kept up with the pace of progress. His views qualify him to run a war in the Gunsmoke era of 1955 rather than in a military theatre in 2007.

Thirdly, it’s too bad that growing up in New Jersey didn’t rub off on General Pace. Where New Jersey is the state that doesn’t hate, General Pace somehow got stuck in a personal state of hate. “

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New York Court Upholds Westchester County Executive Order Respecting Out-of-State Marriages of Same-Sex Couples

Lambda Legal announces today that the Supreme Court of New York, Westchester County has held that County Executive Spano is adhering to New York law in respecting out-of-state marriages of same-sex couples living in Westchester County.

“Today’s decision takes away any doubt that we are who we have always said we are: a married couple,” said Sabatino. “It’s so freeing to have our relationship honored for what it is in the community where we live and make our life together as a married couple.”

“Today’s decision follows a long history of settled law in New York, namely that our state respects marriages that are validly entered into in other jurisdictions,” said Alphonso David, Staff Attorney at Lambda Legal and lead attorney on this case. “Our clients can now have peace of mind that their marriage is respected in Westchester, consistent with New York law.”

NJ Same-Sex Couple Name Change Requires No Court Order
via Social Security News

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