NOTED LESBIAN AUTHOR TIES THE KNOT
247gay.com

Fantastic Well Wishes and Elation for the Brides!!

Cheril N. Clarke, author of the lesbian novels Intimate Chaos and Tainted Destiny, married Monica Bey on January 15, 2007. Clarke has been written about in the lesbian magazine Curve, on the lesbian About.com site, and in Crain’s New York Business newspaper.

They are one of the first New Jersey couples to be taking advantage of that state’s new legalization of civil unions.

“Our ceremony and reception was symbolic—a public display (and party) for our family and friends,” says Clarke.

Clarke and Bey have been a couple for three years. The site of the wedding was the Oheka Castle, a real-live castle in Long Island, New York. In addition to family and friends, many members of the LGBTQ community attended.

Congratulations Ladies!!!!!!!!!!

The couple met at the 29th anniversary event for African Ancestral Lesbians United for Societal Change and soon became friends. The proposal, initiated by Cheril, occurred at Manhattan’s Stonewall Bistro in Spring 2005. But the couple faced some unforeseen challenges before they could get married:… continue?

Editor’s Note: Oheka Castle is very familiar to our CEO. It was where he attended school. “It is extremely hard to find a venue and setting more perfect than this, anywhere.”

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For Women Who Love Women
Leaflet on breast and cervical cancer prevention
from The International Lesbian and Gay Association (ILGA)

Being lesbian or bisexual does not have a direct influence on the frequency of breast cancer or cervical cancer. However, there are certain risk factors that are unique to women who love women – which explains the importance of informing them of the risks.

Because the problem is particularly unrecognized by the public most concerned, ILGA has decided to disseminate a leaflet in English and Spanish on breast and cervical cancer prevention.

The French and Dutch versions were initially coordinated by ILGA with the Belgian Foundation against Cancer and with the help of Belgian lesbian groups.

Why should you read this brochure?

■ Lesbians and bisexual women fear homophobic reactions, or use contraception less frequently, and therefore are less likely to see medical professionals and often hesitate to talk about their emotional or sexual lives. They are also less likely than other women to undergo screening examinations (mammograms or pap smears) that would allow early detection of possible breast or cervical cancer.

■ Because of social and family pressures, lesbians and bisexual women can sometimes feel depressed and pay less attention to their health.

■ Some studies have shown that lesbians and bisexual women are more reluctant to regularly self-examine their breasts.

■ On average, lesbians and bisexual women are less likely to have children before the age
of 30, which increases the risk of breast cancer.

■ Certain studies indicate that lesbians or bisexual women can occasionally overindulge in alcohol and tobacco. They may also become overweight. This increases the risk of breast cancer or cervical cancer.

■ Lesbian and bisexual women who do not struggle with these specific risk factors have exactly the same probability of developing cancer as heterosexual women.

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No Jersey hitches in gay hitching
Debbie Woodell, Philadelphia Daily News

DESPITE REPORTS to the contrary, there is no looming crisis for same-sex couples who plan to tie the knot in New Jersey starting next month.

So says Steven Goldstein, head of Garden State Equality, which helped usher in this new era, which officially begins on Feb. 19. “This is the biggest non-story when it comes to gay-rights issues that I’ve seen in a long time,” Goldstein said, adding that he was “mystified” at how this misinformation has snowballed.

Goldstein said that about a dozen mayors, out of 566 statewide, have said they won’t perform civil unions because it would violate their Christian values.

Goldstein said it’s not entirely a bad thing that those renegade mayors are exposed: “Who would want their relationship sanctified by someone who doesn’t like gay people?” The bigger story, he said, is that so many mayors are eager to perform these ceremonies and support civil unions.

Goldstein called the press, particularly the national press, “very out of touch” with New Jersey. “It’s as liberal and progressive as a state can be,” he said, predicting that the state will revisit this issue and grant full marriage to same-sex couples within the next two years.

No municipality has said it will refuse to issue licenses, the only thing you must get from your…

Two N.J. mayors will stop performing marriages to avoid gay weddings
The (Vineland, N.J.) Daily Journal

The mayors of both Millville and Vineland said Monday they will no longer perform marriages of any kind in an effort to avoid the marriage of gay and lesbian couples.

The mayors released a joint statement Monday explaining their positions, so “that both unfortunate misinformation and deliberate distortions of the facts can be eliminated from the public discourse.”

The mayors said their decision stems from religious beliefs.

“our refusal to perform these ceremonies is based on each of our individual beliefs, i.e., that marriage is intended to be a union between a man and a woman. At the same time, we recognize alternative lifestyles in our communities, we value the many contributions of those citizens to the community and we give every respect to their civil rights and privileges the same as for all citizens,” according to the mayors’ statement.

According to the state attorney general, mayors refusing to…

Congratulations to
Susan and Kelli
of Oregon!

These women ejoyed one of our most romantic and unique weddings yet.

These two corporate women are savvy and worldly with very clear concepts and desires for their special day. Susan and Kelli have been nothing but a joy to work with.

Their planner had this to say: “I LOVE serving this couple. Susan and Kelli are great to work for! Their desires are clearly expressed and their minds are open to suggestions too. It’s been a total pleasure helping to create a dream wedding for them!”

Some of the treats the ladies enjoyed included a beach ceremony followed by a 3 course, gourmet meal, prepared by a personal chef, aboard a private yacht, at sunset, in the Gulf of Mexico! The florals for this event were incredible too! Of course, we’re NOT giving ALL the details but, rest assured, this is a remarkable, intimate, romantic and unforgettable event for these women.

Congratulations Susan and Kelli! Thanks for allowing us to be a part of your amazing day!

Remembering the Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. and Mrs. Coretta Scott King

We at Garden State Equality ask you to take a moment to remember the Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. and Mrs. Coretta Scott King, both of blessed memory. They were among the most extraordinary people in the history of our nation. Their leadership provided an eternal template of courage, compassion and effectiveness for social progress, and laid the groundwork for countless other civil rights movements, including that for LGBTI equality. Let us all honor their memory today.

“We shall overcome because the arc of a moral universe is long, but it bends towards justice.” The Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr., 1968.

“I still hear people say that I should not be talking about the rights of lesbian and gay people (and all LGBTI people), and I should stick to the issue of racial justice. But I hasten to remind them that Martin Luther King Jr. said, “Injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere. Gay and lesbian people have families, and their families should have legal protection, (including) by marriage.” Mrs. Coretta Scott King, 2004.

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National Gay and Lesbian Task Force
honors life and legacy of
Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. and Coretta Scott King

WASHINGTON, Jan. 15 — Today is the federal holiday honoring the life and legacy of civil rights leader Martin Luther King Jr.

Statement by Matt Foreman, Executive Director,
National Gay and Lesbian Task Force

“Today we honor and reflect on the life and legacy of Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. as well as Coretta Scott King, who died last January. In their lives, Dr. King and Mrs. King bent the arc of history toward racial and economic justice. In the years following her husband’s murder, Mrs. King became an unwavering supporter for equal rights for lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people and she was a keynote speaker at our own Creating Change Conference in 2000.

“Those who walked beside them have continued their vision, including Mrs. King’s belief in justice for lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender Americans. We hold up with gratitude the members of Dr. King’s family and those who fought beside Dr. King while he was alive:

‘Homophobia is hate, and hate has no place in the beloved community.’
Martin Luther King III, August 2003, at the 40th anniversary of the 1963 March on Washington

‘When I am asked, “Are gay rights civil rights?” my answer is always, “Of course they are.” Civil rights are positive legal prerogatives –– the right to equal treatment before the law. These rights are shared by all. There is no one in the United States who does not –– or should not — share in these rights.’ — Julian Bond, chairman of the NAACP, National Gay and Lesbian Task Force 10th Annual Miami Recognition Dinner, November 4, 2006

‘Rather than divide and discriminate, let us come together and create one nation. We are all one people. We all live in the American house. We are all the American family. Let us recognize that the gay people living in our house share the same hopes, troubles, and dreams. It’s time we treated them as equals, as family.’ — Representative John Lewis in the Boston Globe, October 25, 2003

“At the same time, we call upon all lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender Americans to recommit ourselves to the Kings’ work of ending racial and economic injustice. That work is far from over; in fact, scant progress has been made in many areas. As reported by the NAACP, in 1958, the typical African-American family had 60 percent as much income as the typical white family; 46 years later in 2005, that figure was — shockingly — just 61 percent. At this slow rate it will take more than 100 years to close the black-white income disparity. Unemployment among African-Americans is more than twice the rate for whites — a greater gap than in 1972. One-third — more than 6 million — of working African-Americans lack health insurance coverage during all or part of the year. Educational opportunities remain vastly unequal, and the progress toward truly integrated schools has not only stalled, but is going backwards. Steps to remedy the legacy of slavery and racism remain under attack on many fronts, including voters in Michigan overwhelmingly approving a ban on affirmative action in November.

“Clearly, we can and must do better. For Dr. King and Mrs. King, for Bayard Rustin, for those in the broader civil rights movement who have stood beside us for so long, and for all of us and our nation, let us renew and redouble our work.”

The mission of the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force is to build the political power of the lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) community from the ground up. We do this by training activists, organizing broad-based campaigns to defeat anti-LGBT referenda and advance pro-LGBT legislation and building the organizational capacity of our movement. Our Policy Institute, the movement’s premier think tank, provides research and policy analysis to support the struggle for complete equality and to counter right-wing lies. As part of a broader social justice movement, we work to create a nation that respects the diversity of human expression and identity and creates opportunity for all. Headquartered in Washington, D.C., we also have offices in New York City, Los Angeles, Miami, Minneapolis and Cambridge. The Task Force is a 501(c)(3) corporation incorporated in Washington, D.C. Contributions to the Task Force are tax-deductible to the full extent allowed by law. (C) 2005–2006 National Gay and Lesbian Task Force. 1325 Massachusetts Ave NW, Suite 600, Washington, DC 20005. Phone 202.393.5177. Fax 202.393.2241. TTY 202.393.2284. theTaskForce@theTaskForce.org.

‘X-Men’ Star Weds In Civil Ceremony
Cumming Played Nightcrawler In ‘X2′
WNBC.com

NEW YORK — “X-Men” film star Alan Cumming married illustrator Grant Shaffer in a civil ceremony outside London over the weekend, the actor’s spokeswoman, Bianca Bianconi, said Tuesday. “Not only are we so happy to be able to celebrate our love for each other, but also to be able to do it in a country that properly recognizes the rights of same sex couples,” Cumming, 41, said in a statement released by Bianconi.

“As residents of America we would have loved to marry there, but we hope that soon the civil rights that we have been afforded in the U.K. will be available to all gay Americans, and we look forward to celebrating not only our marriage, but the end of prejudice.”…

Mayor of Plainfield (NJ) has pledged
to perform Civil Unions in her city!
DottieG, Blue Jersey

“This evening during her “State of the City” address, Plainfield Mayor Sharon Robinson-Briggs announced that she will perform civil unions.

“Our administration is committed to unity and tolerance among all our citizens,”

she said, and added that “as an African-American woman, I know what it is like to be discriminated against.”

The Mayor, elected for a four year term of office, is the chief elected official. The Mayor exercises executive powers for the City of Plainfield and is responsible for direct appointments as well as advise and consent appointments of the Executive Cabinet, Corporation Counsel, and members of boards, commissions and committees.

CONGRATULATIONS!
to Kathleen and Heather
of Ohio!

These women had a marvelous, Key West wedding yesterday!! The photos are being sent in to us in the next day or two! Check back often!

A High-speed catamaran, a fishing charter, a day at the most exclusive spa for Heather and her mom!!! Added to a touching, emotional ceremony on the shores of the Atlantic ocean at sunset, a GORGEOUS cake, family and friends and a mystery guest who showed up to surprise Heather (flown in by Kathleen!!!)… What a phenomenal time!

Congrats, Ladies!!!!!!!!!!!!!!